Trauma: hypervigilance to keep everything and everyone (readç me) safe, turned into a skillset Core wound: I...
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Trauma: Fear of calling Core wound: I will be rejected, I will be betrayed My dad would...
One day, my mother gave me her wedding ring, for me to give to the loveliest woman...
Trauma: Fear of setting boundaries Core wound: I will be rejected Last night, I set a boundary,...
EDIT May 26th 2025: this post was written summer of 2024, but was never actually posted. A...
Remember the Is the pain you feel normal? entry? I just came back from a casually scheduled...
I assume you like doing things that could give you joy. I would. Reading a book, singing...
Today, discussing my “The Mask” in a session, a few dots were connected, in an unexpected way....
For decades, I did not know what emotions, or feelings, or physical reactions do to a person.Sure,...
A little while ago, my physical therapist asked me: “Is your pain level normal?”, when discussing progress...
TW: food, weight, weight loss, stress, body image This post is not about weight or weight change,...
I just put down the first book I read in ages. As a child, I did nothing...
A coming out story, to share an anecdote about what it is like to be Transgender. I...
TW: food, weight, weight loss, stress, body image It’s about 7 years ago now that I realised...
Almost all of my meaningful relationships were all based on trauma bonds. All with the same trauma...